I'm 13, 14 In 10 Days, I Think I'm Pregnant With My Step-cousin Who Is 21 Who Has A Girlfriend ( Not Me). What To Do?

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I'm 13, 14 In 10 Days, I Think I'm Pregnant With My Step-cousin Who Is 21 Who Has A Girlfriend ( Not Me). What To Do?

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Answer 1

Well, I'm 13 & 4 mths pregnant ít's a Girl. (I think) but, the thing is my boyfriend is 16 , and I was young and Stupid to have sex at my age butit happened and you can't take back what already happened . You should tell your parents & talk to your cousin because a lot of us younggirls think that its okay to have sex , but you can get hiv, aids . . . . Or anything else , but don't put to much on your mind. NoOne can force you to have an abortion , it's what you feel is right. L
& a lot people think he raped you but ,if you agreed to it, then it's half of your fault tooooo !! Just make the right choice

Answer 2

I think the first comment is a bit scary for a 13 year old. You should definately speak to someone you can get confidential advice from your doctor or local women's clinic your dr will do a pregnancy test for you and should speak to your mum 2 and your dad whoever you r comfortable with its a very scary prospect for you n you will need all the support you can get for whatever decision you make good luck ....xx

Answer 3

You poor girl. You need to tell your parents and talk to your step cousin. Take a test and if its positive or not you need to go to court and get him in jail. It will hurt but its the right thing to do.

Answer 4

Ok you need to talk to your MOM NOT DAD! And you and your MOM need to go get a pregnant test if it say yes then you and your MOM need to talk about if You want to keep the baby! If not go to the doctor and they can kill the baby but.. You will still have to give birth also you can not hide that you are pregnant you will start to get fat you might get kick out of school not kidding also what where you doing
you are 13 having sex with a 21 year old oh my god did he make you have sex with him or what by the way I am a 14 year old

Answer 5

Abortion "KIlling the baby" often scars the mother for life it is a terrible thing to do. I understand your situation somewhat and I think what you first need to do is barrow some money from your friends for a pregnancy test worrying your mother right away if you are not pregnant will most likely make her angry that you were having sex in the first place. Take more then one pregnancy test 3-9 whichever answer you get most is probably the truth make sure you buy an very accurate test. If it turns out majority is positive then have a calm conversation with your mother about what happened. But I would talk to your Step-cousin first and tell him what to expect so he can figure out what he is going to do as well.

Answer 6

Oh my gosh! Your 21 year old step-cousin?! How did that happen?! ABSOLUTELY YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS! I think that it would be best to tell both of them at the same time so that you don't have to go through that awful experience of telling them twice! PLEASE don't let this happen again! I'm just as old as you and sympathize! BEST OF LUCK!

Answer 7

If I were yuu id tell someone yuu can trust straight away it doesnt have to be a mum or dad and get a pregnacy test I knw a girl who got pregnant by her brother and they are married and have 15 children which I think is sick and discusting and that girl is 10 and the dad is 35 years old eeeewwwwwwwwwwww..... So all I can do is say good luck xxxxxxxxxx

Answer 8

Serena Brianna answered

Yeah just tell the truth and talk to your parents about it

Answer 9

Oh my goodness! That man raped you. That is sick. I am a 12 year old girl who will be 13 june 12th and ive been molested. That is not something any man should do!:|
thats awful!... Tell your parents NOW

Answer 10

Ok well I'm 13 and ive been readin a lot of stuff of 13 even 14 year old that got purposely pregnant ...GOD says not to have sex until you r marrried .....I hope you r a christian ? And it is not you fault ..he raped you ...you parents will NOT be mad at you because you got raped ...they will be pissed at you cuzin ...and school well like I said ..it waznt you fault ..friends wont make fun of you because you couldnt do anything ..you wee raped ...and what I'm about to ask is going to be very hard ..but just don't get an abortion....it will be the most horrible thing you will ever experience and will never feget ...I feel bad feru ...but just answer this ...would you want to be killed ....you were raped ..but if you get an abortion ..you r a murderer ...if you r pregnant then it is too late ..the baby already has a heartbeet and can feel ...you will experience somthing horrible ..but imagine what you baby will feel ....if you r not a christian ..then please tok to me