A great smile, personality, and fun to talk to or be around. Those three are the most important to me. I know a lady at this time that has all three and she really is something.
I would say 1. Intelligent, 2. Open heart, and 3. Good sense of humor and I found mine as we have been married now over 35 years
1. She must own a pizza oven.
2. She must be ungodly rich.
3. She must like old men.