For the women that are so completely against men wearing something that feels good to them, my advice is for you to get back where you belong, that is in the kitchen, wearing an apron, cooking dinner. Comes off as pretty strong doesn't it? I really don't feel that way and don't believe women should be thought of as in charge of that role. That is a traditional view and as time goes on, views change. I think women should be able to do anything they please just as I do men.
If your guy, boyfriend, husband wants to wear something pretty underneath his trousers, there is nothing at all in wearing a piece of fabric that makes him gay, strange or whatever word you choose. It sure as hell doesn't make him gay. As a woman, if you're wearing tight pants and showing off your breasts, can I call you a whore/slut/tramp? And with that all of the negative connotations that go along with it? No, you wouldn't care for that would you?
So why are so many women so quick to judge a man that prefers to be a little different, wear something pretty or lacy, colors and cuts that you don't find in mens underwear? A guy wearing women's clothes signifies nothing about his sexual preferences. It doesn't make him a creep, weird or anything else, it just doesn't fit your stereotype.
Whether it's attractive on a guy is a matter of personal taste, just like so many women I see forcing themselves into too tight of pants, so many women that wear tight fitting tops with their stomach hanging over, in the end I think if they are comfortable with it then good for them!
And I don't see this is as crossdressing at all. If I'm out shopping and I find one pair of jeans that I like more because of the fit, look, whatever and they happen to be women's, then I'm buying them because I simply don't care what society or the manufacturer has put on the label or who their intended audience is. I am my own person and can make my own choices about everything in my life.
You can call it whatever you want. I feel sorry for all of the closed minded people out there, because if a guy wearing panties on you bothers you so much, I can only think of how you live your life judging everything by what society at large says is okay or not.
In the court of Louis XIV, men wore silks and high-heel shoes, and woman wore cottons, and never high heels. Custom changes down through the centuries.
The question is this: Do women have a monopoly on microfiber and nylon? Is lightness, softness and comfort meant only for women? That's what this is really all about. It's not true that you can buy buy nylon male no fly briefs in any national brand. If Jockey started making them, then men would not have to look elsewhere. It's as simple as that.
Feminism has made it ok for women of today to crossdress...no one is fighting for.. Or standing up for the men of today...we are made to shave ower heads..wear boring drab clothing..to look as ugly as we can to come off as being straight!..women love this it lets them have the upper hand over men...by using their looks as a con troll weapon...its time we open ower eyes and embrace ower female side...guys brake the binds
Panties are only tight on men if they wear the wrong size or they are a control style. There are a lot of panties out there that do not and never will work for most men as the gusset or crouch area is not big enough to support the boys. The panties out there that do work feel better and offer more support than men briefs.
The question is all about the fact that a lot of women as well as society have double standards when it comes to what men and women wear. With in the last century women have been wearing clothes that were at one time men only. With the idea of the metro man and it be coming more acceptable for men to shave what only women did at one time as well as wearing make-up the lines of what are for women and for men will become blurred.
It still comes done to some women want to maintain control over what they feel are theirs. A good example is women have to be allowed in men clubs and organizations but they fight letting men in theirs. When will men get equal rights again?
If they do hate men wearing panties then they are close minded. I wear them 24/7 and my wife doesn't mind at all. In fact she turned me on to them. I work outside on asphalt, in the summer it gets quite hot and I get very uncomfortable in jeans and my, then men's, underwear. She told me her thongs, all she ever wears, help keep her cooler. So I asked if she minded if I tried it? She told me it was fine and that was it I was hooked. Now I get into trouble with her because I have A huge panty drawer with more and nicer panties than her.
I don't think women are closed minded, I just think most men never share this aspect of their lives with them. I started wearing panties when I was young and have just recently started again. My wife is supportive and I think they breathe a lot better.
I am a straight married male and have been wearing women's panties daily for the past year. At last count I have 86 pairs. Most are thongs, but have g-strings and bikinis, too. I like the sexiest and most feminine ones I can find. I love how nice the ladies look wearing their little panties. I want to look just like they do, so I wear the same thing they do. Men's underwear is so boring. It is just functional. I like sexy little things with lace, ruffles, bows and tie sides. I look and feel great wearing my panties.
It is much more nuanced than people realize. First of all, women are often more sentimental than logical. Secondly, they are wired to crave security, and anything that makes their man less "manly", at a subconscious level threatens that security. Thirdly, women hardly ever have fetishes. And let's be frank, wearing lingerie for men is very often (I am not saying always), a sexual turn-on, whereas women probably almost never wear their man's boxers to get turned on.
It sucks but that's life. Yes, I wear panties, 24/7. No, my wife does not approve. Yes, I love her anyway. I've learned in over 20 years of marriage that expecting consistency from a woman is a pipe-dream.
Some women are, just as some men are, but fortunately my wife isn't closed minded and in fact insisted that I wear panties, finding no reason I shouldn't or couldn't ... And it is amazing how seeing me in our bedroom wearing sexy panties and often a matching bra turns her on!!!
Yes. All women are small minded.
Why is it a big issue? If your wearing close it doesnt matter if your wear nothing underneaths. Underwear are a reflection of ones inner self, man or woman.
The problem with people nowadays being judgemental is because they were and are still being raised with the thought that with what the bible says about human sexuality but they don't think too much about how much men's and womens clothes were styled alike back then
Not closed minded, but rather shocked at the notion of men wanting to wear something feminine. I can see how it wouldn't be appealing to a woman, I don't see a woman being sexy wearing boxer shorts, but there are women out there that love wearing them ( a long ago ex girlfriend of mine owned a few of her own).
Because of the internet, more men are coming forward with their preferences for wearing panties. I don't say women's underwear anymore because men are now buying them for themselves.
Thay are spoild- selfish...and down wright evil...ladies you are fighting a loss ing battel...you hade your time of change way back in the 1970s..with feminzsum...the world is now comeing around in your faver...point is I don't find women wearing baseball caps sweatpants.. And custom made undies for you ladies with fly in the Front just like mens underwear...or baggy mens tshirts...ohhhh how sexy...so ladies plaine and simple..stick it...on the same note I thank women with an open mind and hart...you are the ones that are evolving
I an 16 and have been wearing panties given to me by my gf. They provide support better than a jockstrap and look sexy. Even in a hanging wedgie they are comfortable and don't hurt because they are so thin but are stretchy enough not to break. Some straight guys come up to me and touch my ass in them because my ass is that sexy in my panties
I have found over a period of years that women who are more accepting of men's choice of underwear, are generally well-educated and fun to be with. Women who are critical of a man's preferance for women's undergarments are probably not worth knowing---pinched little minds with overweight bodies, nibbling on candy bars and reading dime romance novels. Ugh! We don't need to have this conversation because there are better things to do than share a page of comments with superficial little women of no consequence.
Because it is drafty without them.
Woman might not think that men should have a feminine side or wear nice and sexy underwear
"It is because it is disgusting! They have men underwear and women underwear. WOMEN UNDERWEAR= WOMEN! Anonymous"
Just because that poster called it "disgusting" on all men doesn't make it so. I'm a fairly slim male who cross dresses into women's clothing every day and most people never give me any problems at all over it.
Whether you look good in something or not all depends on your body, if you've got a body for that piece of clothing then wear it.
Men should be able to wear what they want and not be judged on what they wear . Come on girls ,give us men a break , we like the feeling of that air blowing up our dress also !!!
My man wears knickers to which I really don't understand..he trys to explain. When he has them on hes very kind and gentle which is the femine side of him but when hes not wearing them hes quite nasty. Can someone explain it. It scares me as I don't understand! He also now wants to wear more e,I ..stockings...bodystocking . Please someone help!
So uncool forever cool...this is why I have such an deepseeded hatred towerd women..thay are selfish spoild littel babies....thay ban together to close out men who crossdress..or wear womens clotheing..makeing an larg percentage BI..or even gay..you ladies are nothing short...but the spawan of satin..EVIL...swine...you will lose trust me...you all will lose..men are changeing...men are..becomeing indapendent...male freedum...all you will be left with is the neanderthol brute...he cheats no you.. And beats on you..have fun ladies...can you say biggot
Well, even though it would be great trading your panties with your boyfriend, I don't think it's that attractive. Why would any straight guy want to slip on a pair of tight feminine panties? I have nothing against any other orientations or anything but seriously what kind of question is this?
My man wears undies but I don't understand it its really not normal as everyone would wear them!! He keeps on and on about wearing them its driving me mad! Help!!
What kind of a question is that?! It's just not normal. That's why they make men underwear and womens underwear. It is labled also for man and women. And no I'm not closed minded and I don't have anything against any sexual orientations
Not closed minded...it just makes it apparent that you have some sexual confusion. Men's underwear is available in tons of different styles and materials. You can get silk and satin in Mens underwear, bikini and thong...why the need for the ladies wear? Because you secretly want to be a chick. I don't believe that men have to be drab and ugly....there are some fabulous suits, and shirts that very stylish for men, and jeans that fit right are amazing looking. Wearing ladies panties underneath, kinky little secret, is gross. Men are tough, ladies are fragile. Men wear mens wear, ladies wear ladies wear. End of subject.
It is because it is disgusting! They have men underwear and women underwear. WOMEN UNDERWEAR= WOMEN!