A few months ago I was in your situation. Me and my boyfriend had sex every single day 2 months ago. We even had sex during my period, but nothing happened! I was so hurt thinking something was wrong with me. I would cry for hours. About a week before I gave up I wrote a letter to God telling and asking to become pregnant and I put it in my bible and left it there, forgetting all about it as I gave up. My boyfriend and I broke up about a month later. I started having symptoms but every test I took came out negative. I kept experiencing the symptoms so I tested again a week later and now I'm 4 weeks pregnant and single! So sad!
Anyway my advice to you is to keep having sex, but have fun with it. Forget about getting pregnant and don't think about it, that would stress you out which will lower your chances of getting pregnant.
As soon as you do that you should be pregnant before you know it! Time will go by faster when your having fun!! I promise!Also ice cream increases fertility! It'll happen don't worry!
I have been married for a while now and in the same situation right now, let keep praying and I strongly believe it will happen soon. He is a wonderful God and he remembers every body our time will come very soon.
You don't have sex every day! That makes for a low sperm count. During 10 days after you start your period (day 1 being the day you start) thru 10 days before you are to start again---The days in between are your most fertile days. You would want to have intercourse every other day so that the sperm are mature enough to make the swim up the vaginal canal and through the opening of the cervix (the os). Your chances for becoming pregnant are much better if you are every other day and only on the days you are prime time ready! (ovulating)--which you can buy a kit to predict, that too.
I am in the same situation and started crying when I read your question. Everytime I see a pregnant woman now I ask myself, why her and not me? My husband is trying to be supportive but just does not understand my pain. I need a magic ball that will just tell me it will happen just not yet. Everyone says, "don't stress about it and it will happen." The facts are it does not "happen" for everyone and I am so depressed thinking that one of those people is me! I am a teacher and see many kids that are neglected and abused I will treat mine like the gifts from God that they are and it just isn't fair!
Pray about it. Cry to Jesus and live again. Soak in a hot tub with a pint of ice cream and watch cheesy movies from your childhood.
Try again.The best time to conceive is between 5 and 15 days after your menstruation has dried up.You could try doing intercourse on every one of those days- then you're likely to get pregnant. Don't be sad - some woman find becoming pregnant a very difficult task. Just keep trying.I hope you have a child soon.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Have you been tracking your ovulation to get pregnant?If not the tests I've been taking say to note the start of your period and if your cycle is 28 days the count from day one of your period 11 days and start to use ovulation tests to find out exactly when you will ovulate which should be within the next 4-5 days.plus you could just tract your cervical fluid to find out which days are best to try. I wish you all the luck in the world.
I thought I was pregnant for sure. All symptoms and everything. Took pregnancy test and it came back negative and then my period started. Then the same week, my sister in law tells us that she's pregnant. It totally crushed me because I thought for sure I was and I'm not and she is. I've been crying at everything now and I feel so empty inside. My husband wants to wait and it kills me when he says that. I feel like it was my time to get pregnant and it was taken away from me. I'm a total wreck. Completely devastated! They have 5 kids total already! I just have 1 and I felt like it was time for us to grow as a family again. I don't know what to do.
Its so good to know there are pple out there like me. Everyone around me is pregnant. I changed location and didnt c my period for 7month after which I was placed on a birth control pill to correct my cycle. I stopped it after 4months and ever since I have been tryin to get pregnant. I want babies so bad. I even want twins I pray to God every day to hear my cry. My hubby is supportive and not really bothered but I can't bear it. Lord pls answer our prayers.
My sister went through the same situation but now she is pregnant just keep believing..
God will provide
I am in the same boat as all of you...I have wanted a child since I miscarried when I was eighteen. Now the doctors tell me I only have a 12% chance of ever conceiving. It hurts so bad and my husband just tells me to go with the flow. And worse my sister-in-law is pregnant and she can't even take care of her two kids now. I just hope that my prayers will be answered. I will include you all in my prayers as well. Best wishes
Its so nice to know I am not crazy.. I been having the same feeling every month. Its killing me inside.. Everyone just keep telling me to not to think about it.. Well, I cannot do that. Its all I think about. I just had witch I think was Implantation bleeding a week ago. I have taken an at home test twice now and both Neg. It four more days before I should start . I just praying I don't...
I have to say It is so disappointing to wait the two whole weeks after ovulation and then get that negative PG test. I had surgery to re-attach my uterus so I could have children, four months later I was pregnant. At my 12 week appointment they couldn't find a the baby's heart beat. I was devistated. I had a D/C and was told by the doctor that I had to wait 3 months before getting pregnant, have been trying to get pregnant for the past 4 months and everytime I have been disappointed. I have to say I don't know what to do, so if anyone has advice I would sure appreciate it.
You can just go to a medical shop and ask for a Pregnancy test kit. It is very handy. You yourself can test your pregency at your home. Which will give you a clear picture whether you are carrying or not.
Aww I'm sorry to hear that. Well girl I say just pray about it and keep going at it like a rabbit and it will come to you. Good luck