when a girl gets turned on her vagina lubricates itself and you get all wet, this is natures way making sex easier making the penis slide in and out with more ease. BUT when a guy goes for it for AGES you can dry out and then the friction of the in/out movement can make you really sore. Or if the SIZE is too big for your vagina or if hes a bit over-excited, he may get a bit ROUGH all these things cause a sore vagina. 2)hurts -
as above!
3)puffy - as above and also when a girl gets aroused sexually, loads of blood rushes to the sexual areas and causes them to swell and get "puffy". MOST noticeably in the genital area, Sort of noticeable in the breast and nipple area, and LEAST noticeably in the lip area (your MOUTH lips) lol
Hope that clears it up for you - your not an alien - it happens to us all xxxx
Wow, that has happen to me..I went for awhile without having sex, for about 7 months and my boyfriend and I had sex I could not take it! It was like I was a virgin all over again. Every time he went to put his penis in me it would slip right out. I lay-ed on my back to make it more easier and it made it worst I could not take the pain. Finally after 45 minute of us trying he came I never got an organism and the whole entire lay-ed I was in pain. The next morning I woke and and I was bleeding. My lips were swelling and it hurt to pee. I just took the rest of the day really slow taking warm baths and putting ice on my vagina. But after 2 two days the pain went away.
Bro I have that right now! Hence looking up this little problem. I don't think the swelling is anything to worry about especially if your partner is rather big...it makes sense that your vagina becomes sore and swollen as it would have been "stretched" during sex.
I was also worried when this happen to me but I'm pretty sure its normal specially if your having "rough sex" and its one of your first times but it shouldn't be puffy or anything for too long.
When women are stressed out, sometimes find it hard to get turned on when they are stressed or down, sometimes women can just dry out and it is frustrating because they want to please you, also if you have sex a lot, the women may become less lubricant, go buy some lubricant to stop her getting friction burn down there, or give her /him a few days break,
Babe I get this too- hence why I'm reading this question. But this little bit of research only confirmed what I already thought. My bf is pretty big and we both love having sex so we get a bit excited- needless to say it gets rough sometimes. He can go for ages too so even though I'm wet for him at first and he makes me cum lots the friction can hurt me and I used to bleed a little bit (not ne more tho). I'm getting used to it and the pain only comes after we have finished and especially if we try to have sex again when the endorphins have subsided . I'm gathering this is pretty normal maybe ask him to go easy on you at first- especially if you havent been too sexually active in the past. Good Luck! =P
Hi I'm not a girl, but I'm asking this for my gf we havent had sex for about 4-5 days and finally did when we were drunk she can't remember if she was wet or not I'm also pretty big she says, but anyways after we had sex for a couple days she said she was really sore like theve explained above she whent in and go checkd the doctor said nuthings wrong she's fine but now she's worried to have sex again because shes scared and doesnt want to hurt like that again... Please help me
Sex should be something that both partners enjoy, you should be able to talk to your other half about it. I used to have this problem, I loved having sex, then I only had sex once a month tops, blaming it on various different things!
Most probably the sex was a little too rough, and you weren't turned on enough, therefore leading to a little bleeding, perhaps, and swelling and redness through too much friction on dry skin. But it is distressing if this happens everytime I know!
This is normal for a short period after, like an evening, but after that then you need to think about booking an appointment with the doctor, to make sure everything is ok- you don't want to be worrying everytime you have sex- sex is meant to be fun after all!
Porn isn't the same as normal sex- you need to be emotionally ready as well as physically
You may have a problem called "bacterial vaginosis"which is from the thrush family,also if you n your partner have vigorous sex"rough sex" then that wont help!!Hope this helps
The same thing happened 2 me... I'm 14 & I had sex with my partner for the first time 2 days later when I had sex with him my private part started hurting when I went to pee and I have had it for 4 days now... I need someone's advice... Is it normal of not?
If you are not lubricating correctly naturally, you may have a sexual this function. Lubrication is important to reduce the friction of penetration and it make intercourse more enjoyable. Try using KY lubricant, its not greasy or oily and it will help.
It depends on your age the duration from your start to have sex if you in the first month it almost normal but if you hurt , or this symptoms stay with you more than month you must go to the doctor and try to have sex in normal ways to provide sexual diseases. Good luck , you can enjoy in my group " couple problems" if you need to ask about your relationship problems with any one your boyfriend , your mum even your friends out and your sexual problems .
I have the same problem me and my boyfriend have sex every night n it hurts the only thing that seems to help is a bath or shower just hot water on it but some times very rarely thAt doesn't work it gets puffy and hurts goes away by the morning but it's really annoying!
