Can Some One Give Me Any Advice On Getting Over Having An Abortion?


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Phoebe MadHat Profile
Phoebe MadHat answered
What's done is done; the only real option is to move forward in your life and enjoy your children, your family, and the little things. You made a true, rational decision and you've shown yourself to be one of the best of us by trusting in yourself, yet showing the empathy and thought of a true mother and human being. You are a good person.
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carrie answered
What's done is done and you can't go back. You did what was best for you and the 3 little ones you already have. You need to focus on what you have and move forward. And if you can't do that, you need to go talk to someone who can help you to move forward. You did what was right for you and your family at that time. It is normal to feel a sense of loss especially right now but you will feel better as time passes. Keep going forward with school and don't let the bad stuff get you down. You'll be fine. But it is okay to feel sad sometimes.
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Anonymous answered
Time will make it better. Please, stop beating yourself up over this. You made, what you thought was, the right decision for you and your family. The important thing now is not to have to go through this again.
Good luck, Darling.
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Anonymous commented
If you've asked God for forgiveness, he's already forgiven you. Now, you have to forgive yourself.
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Anonymous answered
I'm not sure you can ever "get over" having an abortion honey. Give it time, like jb185 said, you thought it was best, and don't regret what you did.  it'll be alright.
Caroline Norwood Profile
I don't think you could ever get over something like that.
& i don't think anyone on here could give you "advice" for something like that unless they've actually gone through with that. I don't know where you stand with Christianity..but through God's eyes that was wrong. I'm not here to lecture you..but maybe you should just pray about it. God forgives everyone if they ask for forgiveness. There's really no actual way of getting over having an abortion. It was your decision and that's something that you will have to live with for the rest of your life.
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Teri Boyd
Teri Boyd commented
That's the problem, I knew what i did was wrong but i did it anyway how can God still forgive me
carrie commented
God forgives everyone who asks for forgiveness. Everyone has regrets, don't let this bury you.

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