Oh my god! I had my first ultrasound today and turns out I might be pregnant with twins... they can't tell for sure yet but I don't know how I'm going to deal with this! One baby at 17 is crazy, but two!! Someone please help me?


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Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

You are tougher then you think. YOU CAN and WILL do this. Once you hold your babies in your arms.... Nothing else is gonna matter but them.

Toni Pauze Profile
Toni Pauze answered

You can do this. The good Lord never gives us more than we can handle.

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Ella Kirk
Ella Kirk commented
Lol!! I will definitely keep you updated on everything, even after I have the babies!! It feels like everything has gone so so quickly since I first found out... these past few weeks have absolutely flown by!
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Oh you dont know the half of it! I swear in the blink of an eye, you will be looking at your babies graduating high school and you are gonna wonder where did the time go? It seems like only yesterday! I am going through that ache for the first time... my oldest just got her first home and moved out February 1st. I ache because I know there will never be a trip to drop her off at school ever again, a wave good bye as she heads off to the mall with a friend, a hug good night as my minor child. There are so many memories flooding my mind these last two months. To keep from falling apart I am allowing myself to have "grand baby" craves for the first time! Lol!
Ella Kirk
Ella Kirk commented
Haha, I am just going to make the most of every single moment! A lot of people have asked me if I'm really keeping the babies! I was so shocked at this, because the way I was brought up, abortion is never an option. They also asked if I am going to be up to parenting the kids properly because I'm so young, (this is my bitchy aunty and older cousin btw) but I feel like if I just do the best that I can, it will be enough. I think growing up in a very strict environment at time, I will be more relaxed with my kids than most people, because I don't want to put my kids what I had to go through at times. I want my kids to have the best lives possible, so I'm going to stop at nothing to protect them enough that they're safe, but expose them enough as well. I wasn't exposed to sex or even information about sex until I was twelve - whereas all my friends had known since they were around six or seven because their parents wanted them to be exposed so that they were properly educated - because my mother was very strict about that. Then at the age of 14 I lost my virginity. I am not particularly proud of that, but I feel as though I was kind of pushed into it by the way my mother parented me. So I hope that I will be able to parent my children better than I was :)
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Willie B. good answered

congratulations you sound like you're going to be a great mom.

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Ella Kirk
Ella Kirk commented
Thanks so much, I hope I will be. its definitely a learning curve for me but I'm going to try and make the most of it :)
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carlos Striker answered

Should have looped before leap?

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Pearl Lederman answered

that sounds like fun, irn a twin rnyself and rny parents did okay with it

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