It certainly is. The men having a feminine side to them want to feel free to express this side of their personality. They’re often told not to portray any feminine traits, like men should not cry, appear weak, or be soft.
Cross dressing can be one way to portray their feminine side. It makes them feel those feelings of comfort and liberation as if a burden has been shed and they’re free. It simply feels good to them.
The feelings bottled inside are not good for a person’s psychological health.
A majority of cross dressers actually began the practice as under dressers because that’s where the society is not going to catch them and disapprove of their practice.
Living the life of cross dresser is like moving between reality and fantasy. The reality being who the person actually is, i.e. A man, and fantasies being who he wants to be, even if momentarily or those feelings that he wants to get out of cross dressing. They fantasies slowly become realities when these people take measures to please themselves; the excitement of becoming a female and that terrifying tickles of what are you losing - manhood.
Similarly, a large number of men (cross dressers) might prefer to wear Kotex Maxi Pads instead of incontinence pads, which are specifically made for urinary incontinence problems, because of their similar level of absorbency.
Simply, whatever floats your boat. No one needs to be critical or judgmental of anyone, just as it cannot be said cross dressing or the traditional dressing is better than any other. Everyone should be free to live how they want to unless they are a potential hazard for others. What someone’s sense of comfort is must not disturb another. The comfort is the boundary; no one should force anyone to go past their comfort.
I think it is. I wear them inside my panties all the time in case I can't get to the mens room in time. It can absorb a bit of urine without leaking. I use kotex overnights. Also, I feel very feminine when I wear them while cross dressing in public.
I wear a Poise Ultimate/Long pad 23/7...Not because I need them, but because I want to. Of course, I also wear a bra, panties, girdle, and stockings 23/7...All while maintaining a male outward appearance. I'm a hetero male in a relationship with a wonderful woman who accepts it all...
I wear pads under my nylon panties. It started back in the 1960'.
In those days one wore an elastic belt with a large chrome plated hooking device, no stickum on pads in those days. Every night my wife would stand before a mirror in her panties and bra, preparing her hair for sleeping. When she had her period I could see the rear hook and the tail end of the pad. It got me really excited and you can guess the rest. She saw me in the mirror and laughed at what I was doing. She then remarked "If it turns you on so much why don't you wear one your self?"
YES! I love to wear them myself. I particularly like the store brand overnight variety. That cushiony feeling is so wonderful inside of my silky smooth panties, and it makes me feel so feminine. It's good to know I am not the only one who does this.
Sure it is fine to wear and enjoy them. I wear them all the time. Depending on what panties I am wearing, it is either Always Overnight with wings or Always Maximum protection with wings. The thicker and longer the better. Love crossing my legs when wearing a pad.
Lol, I love the fact that men wear them too! ;-) I just hope our women approve or don't mind it! ;-) lol, maxi pads and panties rule, but make sure you include belted undergarments and adult diapers and diaper doublers on the list as well! :-)
I love to wear maxi pads and panties ALL the time, I even stick a tampon or two in my butt! Its pretty great I then like to let all my urine lose kinda like I'm having my period!
I have been wearing women's pads since I had my prostate removed,going on 2 years now.They work very well in controlling my wetness.I have no problem wearing them but wish I didn't have to.
I wear them when I'm in a meeting with my work we can't leave and go to the bathroom so I use maxi pads.but the only bad part about wearing them is when I buy them people look at in a funny face and ask me are these for your wife then I say no there for me
I suppose you could wear what ever you want - it's not illegal. Practically, though there isn't much reason to wear a maxi pad. If you have a tendency to 'spot' pee or dribble in you undies, you could wrap a pad around yourself to alleviate that problem, no one else would know. Wearing panties and bras is a social issue, a man can fit into them, so if he wants to wear them thats his decision.
They can wear all that I know. I am a male and my one friend she deiced to have fun with me so you I Basically got dressed as a girl and experienced some of the things. But the pads were the best part. Until one of her other friends who love having fun with males dressed as females but lets not go there all I can say was wearing them was the best thing out of the whole dressing up
Sure, why not? I do and yes I wear a bra and panties too. Of course my wife got me to wear bras and panties, but once we were married she got rid of the last male undies I had, leaving me no choice. So I admit I love wearing lingerie and yes, when it is her period, I wear a pad too ... Love sharing the experience with her as well.
No, in fact there are gals like my wife that think it is cool that I wear panties. But as for wearing kotex, well some might think that a little odd ... But I do, wearing a pad at the same time my wife does and she likes that too.
I do --- yes I wear panties all the time (don't even own any male undies anymore) and yes I do wear a kotex too, though more often what I wear is a panty liner. So I don't know how many men do, but there are certainly a number of us who enjoy wearing panties as well as other items of lingerie, and kotex or maxi pads as well.
I just started recently wearing panties. Yesterday I bought a pack of maxi pads and wore them today. I love the way they feel and make me feel more feminine. They are also comfortable. I plan on wearing them a few days a month.
A lot of older men were Always or Kotex for mild incontinence .I think a lot of yong people should think before they say a word as it shows how smart they are. And yes I do wear Always for my incontinence ..Bob
Probably very small. When I have gone panty shopping, occasionally I will see another man panty shopping as well. Twice, I have seen panty lines on other men, there was no mistaking what the lines were. But, I have never heard or seen a man using a maxi pad for his own bodily use. This is a question to ask a medical professional, such as a doctor, nurse or even an EMT-paramedic. They have seen it all....over and over.
It is ok to wear panties, maxi pads, pantyhose and bras. Many men do it every day. I use to wear panties, pads and pantyhose every day. The silky touch of panties and pantyhoses is a nice sensation, and wearing maxi pads is an indescribable pleasure. Tena Lady pads are 16" long and 3" wide, I wear them many times a week, and love the sensations. 2 panties, 3 or 4 pantyhoses, Tena Lady Pad and a long leg panty girdle is my underwear every day. I am not gay but I love to wear all these clothes.
It is the best feeling ever take a soft cotton sock make a pad out of it place it in a silk mens hanky fold it the long way and place it in your panties must be briefs vanityfair are the best it will be the best feeling you have ever had it will get you off
I would have once said none as I'm really old fashioned with a pro sports background but since coming to Blurtit I will have to say quite a few from what Ive read on here, but guess real men just are really a very rare breed anymore