Maybe it isn't about over coming it, but about coping and dealing with it. It happened to my mom, my sister, me, and most of my friends. Stay strong, and stay in touch only with those who are positive and helpful. Go to your local Department of Human services (formerly the f.I.a.) and get on medicaid (insurance the state will pay for), food stamps, and cash assistance. There is also many programs and places to go through for help with housing, clothing, and baby supplies. Stay strong, and you will be ok!