For the people who are saying 'close your legs, don't use abortion as birth control, etc etc,' your insensitive idiots. You have no idea about this persons situation and you should not be cocky in your answer, she needs help not criticism. Are you definitely pregnant or just suspecting? If your suspecting you need to find out immediately so you have plenty of time to make your decision. You should speak with a professional counselor as soon as possible as the affect this situation can have on your mental state could be huge.You had your reasons for having the abortion in the first place, is your situation still the same or do you think you are now able to care of a baby? Emotionally, financially etc etc Everybody's situations changes constantly and the way you feel now may be completely different to how you felt even just a few months ago so what was the right thing to do then may not be the right thing to do now but the most important thing is that you make this decision for YOURSELF and no-one else whether that is having another abortion or going ahead with the pregnancy. If you do decide to go ahead with the pregnancy that is ok, you had your reasons for not going ahead with the first pregnancy, they were valid and it was the right thing to do for you then. If you don't want to go ahead with the second pregnancy then don't. It is your body and no-one can judge you or force you to do something you don't or most probably CAN'T handle right now. The only thing I would suggest afterwards, to prevent yourself from getting into another situation like this is speak to your doctor about birth control and start using it immediately. Finally, an abortion is a terrible thing for a woman to go through. It is not a choice, it is only, sometimes the answer and the lesser of two evils. Many people have their judgements and opinions about it but at the end of the day the only persons opinion that matters is your own as it will be you who goes through the pregnancy and you who has to provide and raise a child not the person dishing out their opinions. I hope I have helped! I wish you the best of luck and please take care
Hey you are not alone! I am in the same boat! I think that if you got pregnant again then it is the man upstairs telling you something! I don't know about you but that was the worst experience I had to go through, and I am going to go through with the pregnancy! Good luck to you!
The first time I became pregnant I was on the birth control pill. For the record not all forms of birth control are 100% effective. I had my abortion in mid April and the decision was not easy. Fear of being able to have children in the future, regret, religion (my families side) all were big factors... But when it came down to it, it was what was best for me and my partner. My boyfriend and I are almost through university but I plan on heading into dentistry and would not be able to care for a child right now, plus we are planning on a student exchange in Europe. After the abortion we waited 3 weeks before having sex again. I was waiting until my next period to go onto my purchased pills. So we used VCF foam and/or condoms each time we had sex. I am pregnant again, unfortunately. I swear I have the worst luck ever. My situation still remains the same. But after the abortion I said to myself, "I don't think I will ever be able to have an abortion again"... Who knew despite protection and odds I would be in the same situation so short of a time afterwards.. Unfortunately being a student the jobs I have rely highly on looks, so having the child (my choice at the end if carrying it to term would be adoption) would cause me to lose them (yes, legally there would be an issue, but they would find ways around it.) I will have to give up my education and dreams for something I do not want now, but here I am. Emotionally damaged, unsure of what the correct choice is and you only have a short time to decide. Not to mention how the doctor will respond if I continue on the same path as last time. I feel lost and not sure who I can talk to in this topic.
I myself just had an abortion and it was a nightmare, though not as bad as I thought it would be. But I still know now that if I do get pregnant, whether that's years from now or tomorrow, I will go through with the pregnancy and keep my baby. You should do what's right for you. These people that have commented with rude, judgmental, remarks, are asses that cannot possibly understand the mental and physical stress that comes with an abortion or even being pregnant. We do. It's not their lives or bodies. It's yours so do what is right for YOU and YOU alone. No one else matters...well except maybe the father of the child. He has a right in some of it. Either way...I hope you choose the best choice for YOU and I wish you the best of luck in which ever road you take :)
I had an abortion jan 16th and just found out I am pregnant. How far along would I be? I had my period for a quick 4 days maybe middle of jan? Any ideas?
That's just wrong what was just said I recently had an abortion an I wanted to keep it but I felt selfish by bringing a innocent baby into this world not knowing if I could provide for it.I wouldn't call us murderers I'd actally call us savers.I regret doing it but in the back of my mind I try an think of the good things like what I just said.
Hi all . I have recently had an abortion and I now suspect I'm pregnant again would I be entitled to another abortion so soon as I also missed my follow up appointment I'm really worried they will refuse me or think badly of me I have used condoms and checked if they we rnt ripped but my boyfriend grind-ed in me recently he says nothing came out but I'm not sure Ob's hes not worried about it as I'm only due on in the next few days I took a test but it was faulty as control line wasnt showing someone please help x
I am thirteen and had an abortion four weeks ago. If you are pregnant then do whatever you feel is right and do not be pressurised by others. I thought I would be okay after the abortion but I am not and even though my boyfriend stayed with me and I know he feels the same I don't know who I can talk to. Ignore anyone telling you to keep your legs shut as I'm sure not all of them did. Good luck and do what you feel is feasable and realistic and think about the baby not just yourself. X
I think I could be in the same situation as well... I haven't had a period since I had the abortion in february and am going to take a test tomorrow. I didn't want to go through with the abortion in the first place, but I thought it would be best as I can't possibly look after, and afford to have a baby now. Don't know what I'm going to do this time if I find out I am again.. I believe it's a sign too if I am, but my situation hasn't changed. I'm still in university and if I had the baby it would mean dropping out. I couldn't give the baby a life if I did!
Hey I had an abortion about a month ago and I have been having sex before even the two weeks I think it was like two days after and yes I know everyone says to me I'm in with a good chance falling again cause the baby I aborted wasn't the guy I'm with now and we wanted a chance to have owe own family go for it girl but this time no matter what anyone says keep
Victoria Hasbeenhooked Giles , I dont believe I can have anymore kids because I only have one tube. I want more kids with my fiancee, one of my biggest wishes!, answered
Me and my fiancée are looking to adopt, we have been trying for almost 2 yrs with no luck. If you have a change of heart and don't want to have an abortion, but want to do adoption we will be more than happy to help.
I had abortion on june 17th and 20th july I came to know that I am again pregnant with ultra sonography.. Whether is it possibly to get pregnancy withing one month lof abortion? Now I am going to abort this too , whether this multiple abortion can hamper my health & upcoming wish to baby?? Plz guide me, thanx
SEW IT UP!!!! Maybe with this one if your capable enough to give a couple the dream of a lifetime a baby would be a great and wonderful gift. The gift of life.
Hmm.. Well, let's see.. I think it's time to start being responsible and stop using abortion as your birth control method. Keep your legs closed or get on birth control. There's pills, depo shot, nuva ring, the implant... Pick one & get on it before you have sex again after giving birth or your next abortion.. Whichever you decide to do..
Well please stop having sex. Because you are very likely tO get pregnant. Please do not have another abortion. Don\'t make the same mistake. Give it up for adoption(: Don\'t get another abortion and kill the baby, I\'m not trying to be mean but it was your fault you had sex and you are going to have to face the consequences. Please don\'t make the baby pay for your mistake. Adoption is the way to go. I hope I helped. And don\'t listen to the people who are being mean to you about this, I undrstand it\'s a hard situation. And even if you want to, keep the baby(: But if your not fit, lik I said adoption(:
STOP HAVING SEX. It's irresponsible to have sex, get an abortion, have sex, get an abortion. Don't you understand you are playing with a living soul that God has placed in your body. Remember the commandment thou shall not kill. You think its your life, but the baby is Gods life placed in you. Have the baby or he will be angry. Nevermind your parents..
Why don't you go on the pill it isn't fair on the babies don't have sex if you are to young I thing you need to think about what you are doing everytime you have sex their are many people that can't have children and you are just wasting them x but all my best hope everything work out x
Close your legs would be a good start! Next try using some protection. Jesus. How many fetuses do you want to weed eat before you figure out a better form of birth control?
