What Happens During An Abortion And What Happens Once You Get Home?


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I had an abortion at 12 weeks into my pregnancy. I had to go into the hospital twice. The first appointment was to take a pill then two days later I came in for my second appointment were I was given four tablets which I had to place inside my vagina. These induce a miss carriage. It isn't painless, I went through a lot of pain, however, they do offer you pain relief and the nurses are their for you. I didn't take any pain relief as I felt like I should have to feel the pain but this was down to my own personal guilt, abortion is not wrong and you shouldn't feel guilty. Its your body and your are the one that has to go through it. I passed a lot of blood and every time you go to the toilet you have to do it in a cardboard catcher they place over the toilet as they have to know when you've passed the pregnancy. It was embarrassing but that is all part of it, the nurses have seen it all before and understand. You have to pass both the fetus and the placenta before you can go. Once you've passed both they keep you in for an hour to make sure your ok and explain to you what will happen to your body next. I'm very sorry for your situation, I know most people think we women run into the clinic as soon as we find out we're pregnant and swagger out sighing in relief. I know this is not the case. I understand the thoughts that have gone in and out of brain like a broken record and I know afterward you will feel sad, remember it is OK to grieve the loss take time to grieve and take things slowly. Good luck and lots of love, xoxoxo
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You should NOT be basing your decision on anyones religious views! First off, any fetus under 20 weeks does not feel pain. ( that part of the brain hasn't developed yet)
23-24 weeks is when babys have a chance of living outside of you. That is why doctors discourage abortion after this point.
Anytime before that it isn't a baby! It only has the ability to eventually become one.
When most women go for abortions it's usually very early on. The "baby" is only about the size of a pea and NOT anything but a blank grouping of cells. It is hormones and your body that tells those cells to become a baby. That's why scientists call it stem CELL research. Not baby killing research.
Really you need to think about you options.
Are you emotionally and physically ready to support a child the way they should be?
Are you selfish enough to keep it if your answer is no?
Could you handle giving up your child for adoption? And if so possibly have this come back in the future?
Could you live with yourself if you aborted something that eventually would become a child? Some women have a long term guilt from having a abortion. Also remember that this choice does not only affect you and your optional child. Your family and friends must live with the decision as well.
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I had this done I'm 16 years old and I regret every last bit of it. My My sister had a baby just a few months ago and she is 16 as well. I hold her baby and wish I wouldn't of done what I did. Whatever you do its your choice, just think about it really hard ok. Don't make a choice untill you are absoulutley sure. And if your not pregnant from now on use protection. Good Luck
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Sometimes its just not a good time to bring a child into the world. You should talk to your doctor before you actually go just so they can make sure that you are really okay with it. It's really not a good idea to do it all by yourself but if you need to hide it due to someone or something in your life.....Don't expect you would be bouncing off the walls when you get home. You should find a quiet place to rest for a while. You may feel tired and a little sore. For some more mentally sore than physically.  Sleep is a good idea. Replenish your energy but don't expect to be yourself for at least a few days. My condolences to you and anyone else that has to go through this procedure. Take care of yourself and if you need to hide it and have no one to talk to, sneak a doctors appointment,  just for a chat. You are not alone.
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I mean this is my opinion. Yes it isn't rite to kill an innocent baby...but you have to look at it 4rm a person whose nt ready for a childs point of view. If you do get an abortion just pray pray pray and ask god for forgiveness...I have 1 son in I'm nt on my feet rite nw no job, or nun I cudnt bring anudda child into this world when my life isn't togetha. So if your nt ready than I handstand...
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Sambu Bornes answered
There are so many ways of doing it! The one I am sure of is that  you'll be given a tablet to swallow and one will be inserted thru your vagina. Then you'll just do your normal duties. You'll start having your "periods" after 5 or 6 hours after the insertion. It is very painless! Good luck dear
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I read that poem and it made me cry too

I am 21 and I might be pregnant. My fiance doesn't want me to keep it, but I want it.
I don't know what to do
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Well I'm 13 And I'm Still Recovering From An Abortion;
When I first went to the doctor he performed a sonogram to see how far along I was.
[I was 25 & in ny its illigal to have one after24 so I had mines in md] then he marked where the fetus was and inserted a needle to numb my belly I felt pressure but for me who is NOT a fan of needles it was painful. Then he inserted another needle and put like 5 different thingis on it full of liquids I think call cyertec. And I had 2 take these 4 pills @ once at 6pm when I was home. Then the contractions came and I am not going to lie the WORST pains ever. My mom was there holding my putting hot towels on me. It was unusual for me to go through this is one day when its usually2-3 but later that evening I was having my labor pains and clear liquid and blood came out and after I threw up my mom called the doc nd they rushed me to the office I stayed with the nurses waiting on the doctor nd I was in deeep pain and dehydrated. When the doc came he put the needle thru my vein in myfist so I could fall alseep and trust me in all the pain you have with those contractions you wouldnt feel anything then you sleep and they do what they do...ect. When you wake up you feel dazed,high nd emotional. I had mines in 1 day I can't imagine havin that pain for 2-3-. Well thats my story hope it helps.
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I take it that as yet you have not discussed this with a doctor? Firstly I would recommend this as they would be in a much better positrion to answer your questions. But as far as the basic info goes it depends on how far you into your term you are as to which type of abortion they will perform, if you are only a few weeks into the pregnancy then the procedure is fairly straightforward and as regards to whether you will be able to physically hide it then almost certainly, however the psychological effects are harder to quantify. If you ask at the clinic I'm sure that there will be someone who will refer you to a group or organisation that will to help support you after the procedure. I hope that this is of at least some help to you... Regards
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carlota dy answered
First. Will drink and insert a tablet its called cytotec then the abortionist will massage you're tummy. I had an abortion before once because I'm so afraid to have my baby at my age 15y.o.
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Donna Maness answered
Most of the time they dilate the cervix and use some type of suction to remove the fetus, I' sure it causes some discomfort, gut that should pass in a short time. I wish you the best.
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Well it depends how far you are in the pregnancy and what kind of abortion you are going to have.

if you are less than 8 weeks pregnant than you might have a medical abortion  [medical induced miscarriage]. You pretty much just take a pill or two and you will have symptoms of miscarriage. You will start to bleed and have cramps and pass pieces of tissue and blood clots.

if you are over 8 weeks pregnant than you are most likely to have a surgical abortion. Some places offer you general anesthesia[ where they put you to sleep and you don't feel or remember anything] and local anesthesia[where they numb your cervix but you still feel some pain and discomfort and you will remember the entire procedure]
they open your cervix with some tools and they use a vacuum like machine to suck out the pregnancy and tissue.

after the surgery you will feel pain and cramping regardless of what kind of anesthesia you had.

I wish you the best of luck.
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You will regret it for the rest of your life.
Your parents will understand (if your a teen)
they will always love you, because they gave you life.
No matter what happens to you, they will always support you.
You should support your baby, because you were the one to give it life
... Your parents didn't take away your life. Why should you take away theirs?

Your baby loves you
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I am 19 rs old and 6 weeks pregnant. I want to keep it but my bf is against it. I love him and I don't want to lose either. I am worried if I  get and abortion I may never have a kids agian! What should I do please help?!
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shay answered
Well if your before 20 wks they usually ask you do you want heavy meds or not  they put you in sturrips like at the doc. And they get these big tweser looking things to hold you apart and they grab the uterus and cut it then they have a hose looking thing and the baby gets sucked out
I know it sounds bad and it is it dosent hurt that much but I had it done and I regret every bit you'll never 4get it. Sry to say but I got pregnant a year later and lost the baby at 5mths it had something to do with the abortion  it makes your cervix thin so just think about it ok
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cheryl carkin answered
You should get on the web and find the short clip Silent Scream. It  shows you exactly what happens and how the baby is taken from your body. The emotional effects can last for a lifetime.
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Killing innocent creatures is not an option at all. My best ad vice don't get one I found this on Fan ficI made me cry:Month one

I am only 8 inches long
but I have all my organs.
I love the sound of your voice.
Every time I hear it
I wave my arms and legs.
The sound of your heart beat
is my favorite lullaby.

Month Two

today I learned how to suck my thumb.
If you could see me
you could definitely tell that I am a baby.
I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though.
It is so nice and warm in here.

Month Three

You know what Mommy
I'm a boy!!
I hope that makes you happy.
I always want you to be happy.
I don't like it when you cry.
You sound so sad.
It makes me sad too
and I cry with you even though
you can't hear me.

Month Four

my hair is starting to grow.
It is very short and fine
but I will have a lot of it.
I spend a lot of my time exercising.
I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes
and stretch my arms and legs.
I am becoming quite good at it too.

Month Five

You went to the doctor today.
Mommy, he lied to you.
He said that I'm not a baby.
I am a baby Mommy, your baby.
I think and feel.
Mommy, what's abortion?

Month Six

I can hear that doctor again.
I don't like him.
He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home.
The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy what is it? It burns!
Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it!
Mommy! HELP me!

Month Seven

I am okay.
I am in Jesus's arms.
He is holding me.
He told me about abortion.
Why didn't you want me Me?

Every Abortion Is Just:
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak
thanked the writer.
Anonymous commented
First off...I believe everyone has a choice in the matter of what happens to their own body..secondly, Abortions in the u.s. Are very very rarely performed after 20 weeks which definitely is NOT seven months as stated in your poem..and doctors that offer abortions are not going around forcing them on to happily pregnant women.women who have abortions (I myself have recently undergone the procedure) are not doing so to be selfish or cruel..sometimes its just not their time to introduce a new lif
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Kristin Cardillo commented
This timeline of development is completely off. I recently had a child and also studdied the biology behind gestation in school. While the organs my be present they are not functional until after 20 weeks which is long after most abortions are preformed. The brain is what determins what a feus can hear and feel and experience. You should really do your own research before posting things like this and making yourself sound like just another religious asshole.
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LESSONS FROM GOD ; What happens to a Baby's Soul after Abortion or Miscarriage

  (Please think about this then read the following)

One fine morning at home, I was chanting mantras when Sai Baba appeared  and said ''Amarjit, come with me", we reappeared in a Temple with my wife also sitting next to me in the temple Hall.
Baba looked at us and said '' I have brought someone to meet you''

  I said,  "Baba 'who have you brought''
Baba said ''Look meet your other daughter''

I was totally confused ''Baba you are mistaken we have a daughter  we do not have another, ''

  '' AHA,!  Said Baba   '' She is your other daughter, do you not, remember the trauma your wife suffered during miscarriage 15 years ago?"
  I replied,  "Baba, why have you brought her to see us''  

    I saw this girl standing next to us tall and very serene as if she had been touched by the hand of GOD!.

  Baba said '' Amarjit, When the mother has a miscarriage or Abortion it is not automatic that the child's soul ascends, If the mother is constantly immersed  in prayers then God intervenes and send Angels to  take the Baby soul to Heaven/appropriate place, if not in prayers -- then the Baby soul can be trapped in Limbo, becoming a BHOOT/Spirit , and normally attaches itself to it's mother where it is home!
  From the mothers body the Baby soul may cause untold Trauma to its Mother/father and all around. Many times the Soul has no idea that its body/temple has died! The soul watches everything the parents do and interferes with their emotions.  Amarjit, this is why its important to immerse in God prayers always.
Amarjit, God has acknowledged your prayers & Devotion & intervened to take your baby soul Home!".

  Baba then took hold of our daughters hand and the gates of Heaven opened and he disappeared with the Angels.
  Its only when the Hand of God touches us we realise there is more to life then what we perceive.  

  We should open our senses and allow our Inner Godhead to awaken.

Baba says "I am God, You too are God but you fail to recognise this!

OM SAI RAM     Amarjit

With Miscarriage and Abortions invariably the baby soul stays within the mothers Womb where it was conceived as it is home to it.
The mother has no idea why she has gone into depression after miscarriage or abortion.  She has no idea it could be the Traumatic Soul stuck to her.

From the womb the Baby Soul then may choose to cause a lot of suffering to her host/ ie Mom and people around. If the baby Soul becomes possessive of the Mother then it will invariably become very  jealous and act accordingly with the people attached to MOM!

With an Abortion / Miscarriage while it may be argued that the foetus has no soul in it in the early stages, it was shown to me by  Baba that the foetus can be classified as a Phantom Living organism of the Mother similar to ' The Phantom Limb'.

So Aborting the foetus is similar to that of having a trauma when you loose part of your body, say the Limb , Kidney etc. The very fact of removing this living organism causes Untold trauma especially in the Mother.
Our body is the temple of God 'Do not defile your Temple'.

Being born as a woman conceiving Wow, Men find it hard to understand why their women behave strangely.  
   Think about this - for approx 9 months the Mother has 2 soul within her body hers and the baby's.
   The baby's mind can also influence the mother during this period!  

  Case Study :
My first teaching from Baba happened at a friend's house.
We were praying and suddenly I saw inside his mothers womb a baby soul due to an old miscarriage some 40 years previously.
I asked his Mother to ask God to release this soul to Heaven.
She became nasty and I was asked to leave immediately!
Nowadays I have to be very careful how I word myself.

Case Study
I was praying with a woman who had gone into depression and ill health when suddenly Sai Baba  showed me in her womb was a dark energy. I spoke to this energy and it manifested to 2 Aborted souls which the mother had over 9 years!.
The souls were jealous of each other and fighting each other inside her womb giving her health and emotional problems within her family.  Baba took the souls away after we prayed for their release   their Karma to be forgiven . The lady since has changed for the better.

Case Study
Another lady suffering from Emotional problems had  darkness attached to her breast.
  When I spoke to this darkness it turned out to be an aborted baby soul which was sucking her mothers breast for milk , energetically and draining Mom of all her energies.
  Baba then took away this soul as well.  She has changed for the better since with Gods Grace.

     If the women dies with the soul still stuck with her then this becomes a Karmic issue. If say the women is reborn   as a man or a woman in the next life this trauma still follows the person reincarnated. We have seen sometimes the energy becomes absorbed into a Karma Issue or in some cases the Soul  waits for the rebirth of the soul  it was attached to and as soon as it reincarnates  it  attaches itself to this Soul , the new body may not be a women it could be a man.
    This Karma can be released thru mantras, prayer deep devotion to God or Sadhanas  like Vortex  , or the Grace of your Guru.

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To keep our self free of Spirits and Bhoots it is essential to pray and or meditate.
The spirits  do NOT like when we go into silence or prayers.
I remember some years ago after an overseas visit to Nairobi  I was praying in my room , when suddenly I could see thru the walls of the House at that particular time, I saw floating along the other room and down the hall way and coming straight to me a being which was like a jelly fish but denser, it floated up to me and then tried to enter me,  I felt the skin on my hands burning and then I heard this being Screaming for it was burnt too, by the Power of prayers . It ran away screaming .
The prayers I had been chanting had saved me
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I know all about abortions. And yes, it will be noticeable. Maybe not physically, but it will be noticeable because the horrible guilt you will feel for killing a innocent baby that didnt fit into your "plans". That baby loves you, and you know you love him/her. So don't kill her/him, the guilt will eat you alive.
thanked the writer.
Anonymous commented
My girlfriend aborted my baby after we had a row. The baby was carefull planned and wanted. She took a strop with me and terminated much against my wishes. She has now slept with anothe guy just 4 weeks later and is pregnant by him. He does not want her or the baby. She however has decide to keep this unwanted baby. I am totally depressed about this and am about to get professional help such is my state of mental torture over this, I nearly commited suicide the other day as a result.
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Well it depends on the triamester. Why don't you look up silent scream and pics of what it does to your living baby.  Look up peoples stories and they will tell you in detail what happens. Cause it aint pretty. Be prepared when you go in to do it . Because you will regret it.
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You don't have to have an abortion. That is murder! Give the baby up for adoption. There are many couples out there that can't have kids. Don't make a choice that you will regret for the rest of your life.

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