Making a decision like abortion or having a miscarriage is completely up to you.... Other people just needs to shut up and stay out of it...only you know what your going through so don't worry about what other people think cause deep down if they were faced with a problem like that they probably would think like that too... So like I said its your decision! Think about it*
I'm 30 weeks pregnant and I don't want this baby and I don't want to have an abortion so I want it to look like I just had a miscarriage the reason why I don't want this baby I'm going through a divorce so I wont be able to give this baby the love that she/he deserve.
I'm sorry your feeling this way I think if you really don't want it then go and see your dr. It is the safest way sweet you don't want to experience a miscarriage they aren't pleasant. Ignore the angered comments of others its entirley your decision who cares what they think. People shouldn't be too quick to judge. I have 5 children and I'm now 29, but when I was 18 I had an abortion because I was scared and didn't feel ready. I'm not proud of it but I don't regret it either. Take care and go see your dr sweet. Xx
If you do not wish to have a baby have an abortion from a trained professional! Doing it yourself can be very dangrous to you and the fetus! If you don't do it right you could endup still having a baby but a defected one! Please see a doctor
Please do not listen to the very uneducated person who previously answered this question. You sound very scared and afraid. I know how you feel. It is terrifying to have something like this happening to you and to have no control over your own life. You will be ok. Please do not let anyone force their own opinions on you or threaten you with predictions about your faith. They are not any type of God and have no idea what they are talking about. They are giving their own personal opinion and that has no basis in YOUR life. I'm sorry, but you must see a physician. Either go to a clinic or a private GYN, but you must get something started quickly. The quicker you get this taken care of the better for you. It could be as simple as oral medication, or you could need an actual procedure. But do not be afraid to make your own decisions. This is your body, and your life, only you should have the right to make decisions regarding your future. You were mature enough to get pregnant and now be mature enough to follow through. Listen only to yourself and be true to yourself. You are going to be fine.
I would seriously consider the outcome of your choices down the road. If you place yourself in that kind of situation to have a miscarriage and in later years when you want to have children but can't that could put a damper on the rest of your life. I am woman's choice but consider both the positive and negative before making a rash decision. If your father loves you which I am sure he does he is just upset because it is a fresh thought but he will eventually come around. He has already lost his wife and I don't think he would want to lose his daughter too. Hope this helps!
This is just an idea, but maybe to save the babys life, you could give birth, then put it up for adoption. Just an idea, but then you wouldnt be killing the thing. I hope all turns out well.
First of all, forced miscarriage is a form of abortion and murder.I'm 19 and my daughter is almost 1 and now I'm pregnant again, and even though I know I can't do it right now, I'm living with the mistakes I've made. Abortion isn't something I could live with neither is a "forced miscarriage." God has a plan for everyone sweetheart and forced miscarriage is the worst thing you could possibly do. You could seriously injure yourself. If you honestly can't keep the baby due to your situation, go to a walk in clinic under confidential teen, they'll help you with getting insurance and a court order for you to get an abortion without parental consent. If you were truly against having an abortion you would NOT be considering a forced miscarriage. If you're not going to keep the baby do it the right way, not the wrong way.
I do not believe in purposely terminating a child but my gosh, if you are a heroin addict and are that selfish, it almost makes me change my mind because that baby would have a terrible life.
You should be VERY ashamed of yourself you know how many women out there are dying to have babies and can't women that have been trying for years and years and just now decided to quit some women have drove theirself mad and to a point to where they went crazy and let me tell you having a miscarriage isn't pleasant there is blood EVERYWHERE not like a period FAR from it and its painful not like a period cramp more painful than that not even pain relievers would help believe me I have been there and you wanting to force it on you will go to well just remember this you won't go to heaven anyway you should take what I just said in here into consideration and if you want to have an abortion then you shouldn't be having sex knowing what could happen even if your on the pill or some form of birth control it don't matter it can happen either way you don't need to be having sex I don't care how old you are if you come on the internet asking millions of people how do you make a miscarriage happen you are very sick and stupid person
